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The Now, Then, Us and Them: How to Leave a Legacy

My wife and I were privileged to go see the Legacy Journey tour live this past week.
The Dave Ramsey team put on an incredible event. We had a great time and were inspired.

If you care for your family and love helping others then The Legacy Journey is for you. It’s built for those that have already been been through Financial Peace University and need some inspiration and push to take it to the next level.
It’s about leaving a Legacy for our children, their children and beyond.

The theme centered around 4 words.
Now, Then, Us and Them.

The NOW
1 Timothy 5:8. But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.

Get educated, get as big of a shovel as you can and get out of debt.
No matter how big our heart is, we must take care of ourselves first, so that we can have the means to then care for others.
It’s not being selfish; it’s actually the opposite. We must fill our own cup before we can begin overflowing to others.

The THEN
Proverbs 29:18. Where there is no vision, the people perish.

This one is about Retirement Investing, Insurance and College Funding.
Once we have control of our finances, are debt free and have an emergency fund built up, THEN we can start putting money aside for our future and our children’s future.
We must be disciplined in planning with out money instead of just living for the moment.

The US
Proverbs 13:22. A good man leaves an inheritance to his children.

This step is about more than money.  It’s about character.
“What good is money if the person who is holding it is not a good man”.
“More money makes you more of what you are – good or bad”.
You must have a good handle on your personal life, your marriage and your kids.
Love God, go to church, build a strong marriage and teach your kids about life and giving.

THEM
Proverbs 28:27. He who gives to the poor will not lack, but he who hides his eyes will have many curses.

Once we have built a strong foundation for us to live on that will not crumble, then we can be in a position to reach out and help others.
We are blessed to be a blessing and giving is fun!

Let’s build a legacy?
Let’s be good managers of what God has given us.
Take care of the Now, build the Then, stabilize the Us and give to Them.

May God thoroughly Bless you!

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Cold Fries: Another Lesson from the Drive-Thru

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We’ve all experienced it at some point.
You order a hamburger and fries through the drive-thru.
As you are taking off you reach into the bag to steal just a taste of the fries.
And why not? They always place the fries on top of everything else and they are not in a wrapper like the burgers. It’s just too easy.
What’s worse is the kids are watching your every move from the back seat, salivating and wondering if you are taking one of their fries or not.
There is nothing like good, hot, fresh french fries from the drive-thru.

You happen to pull the longest fry from the bunch and as you place it into your mouth and take the first bite your excitement turns sour when you find that they are stale and cold or luke warm at best.
Not good!

So, now what? No one likes cold fries.
Do you just drive on and deal with it?
Do you have a pity party, fuss and complain?
Do you go ahead and eat the cold fries and hope that this was just a one time event?
Is it worth the hassle to turn around and go ask for more fries?

Let’s think about it from another perspective and then decide.
What if you are the manager of the restaurant and you had no idea that your customers were getting cold fries and not happy?
Maybe there was an equipment malfunction or a new employee who just needed to be trained properly?
What about the people in the car behind you, who are going to get cold fries as well?

You have the power to change it all if you will just park the car, grab your fries, go inside and make the manager aware.
You don’t do it in a mean way, but with an attitude like you would take when helping an elderly person across the street.
You are there to help.

Now everyone is happy. Not only do you end up with freshest, hottest fries possible, but so do your kids and the people next in line that you don’t even know. Even the manager should be happy that you made him/her aware of the problem.

What if you decided not to go back and make the matter known?
Could you be mad or upset if you get cold fries the next time? No, because you didn’t do anything about it.

It’s not all about the cold fries…
It’s about thinking of others, rather than yourself.
It’s about making a difference and effecting the world around you.
It’s about helping others.
It’s about doing something about the situation you’ve been given, instead of just dealing with it and waiting for someone else to take charge.

So the next time you get cold fries, literally or figuratively, do something about it. You can make a difference; You can make your life and those around you better.
Even if it’s one fry at a time. 🙂

What do you think?
Have you ever received cold fries and gone back to get them replaced?
If so, did you have the right attitude and intent?
Please share by commenting below.

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Sometimes It’s Better To Be Dumb

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Have you ever come in contact with someone who thinks they know everything?
No matter what you tell them, they are quick to respond with, “Yea.  I know” or “Knew that already”.

How does that make you feel?  Immediately your countenance falls and your like, “oh”.
All the excitement that was just in you, hoping to share information that you thought they didn’t know, suddenly goes away leaving you wondering what to say next. You feel dumb.

Now put yourself in their shoes.

Somebody comes running to you clearly excited about something that they had just learned.
As they begin talking, you immediately realize that you already know what they are talking about.  You either figured it out on your own or somebody else already told you.

Will you play like you didn’t know or belittle them by crashing their spirits with, “Alrighty knew that”, before they even finish?

Sometimes its better to be dumb.

According to the dictionary, the definition of dumb means lacking the power of speech, temporarily speechless or unwilling to speak.

Yes, sometimes it is better to be dumb.
Sometimes it’s better to not say anything at all or act speechless in order to lift the other person up and let them have their moment.

Its a good feeling to know something that somebody else doesn’t know.  To be able to teach somebody something that they didn’t know before or to make them better off than they were.

Why not give someone else the chance to feel that way?

Be dumb!


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